I know I'm such a frequent blogger! (haha)I don't really think anyone reads it, so why bother. But hey, I decided today this might be a good outlet.
My thoughts today have been on friendship. I'm sure I have a lot of faults, but my willingness to help my friends-to be there for them-is one fault I don't have. I do my best to be there, to help any way I can. To be honest, I probably in many cases go beyond the amount I should help but it's just the way I am.
Guess that's what bothers me when I have friends that don't do this in return. I can't count the times I have researched things on the Internet, in stores, etc. for a friend and have called or emailed the answer. Matter of fact, if I am asked a question in an email, I do my best to answer it unless I was told not to say anything about the subject, and I will usually tell the person that.
So the flip side of that is I can't count the times I have not got answers to questions that I have asked. Today was one of those days. I asked a question of a friend on something that I was trying to find out the info to help someone else (not anything secret or gossip). I know the friend has checked her email because I have got email from her but not the answer to the question. Maybe it's because I'm tired and not really feeling that great, but it just kind of struck a cord with me today. Why do I go out of the way to help so much (and there has been many times I have inconvenienced myself to help)? I guess I don't need to be so eager to help. You know you get burned just so many times!
My thoughts today have been on friendship. I'm sure I have a lot of faults, but my willingness to help my friends-to be there for them-is one fault I don't have. I do my best to be there, to help any way I can. To be honest, I probably in many cases go beyond the amount I should help but it's just the way I am.
Guess that's what bothers me when I have friends that don't do this in return. I can't count the times I have researched things on the Internet, in stores, etc. for a friend and have called or emailed the answer. Matter of fact, if I am asked a question in an email, I do my best to answer it unless I was told not to say anything about the subject, and I will usually tell the person that.
So the flip side of that is I can't count the times I have not got answers to questions that I have asked. Today was one of those days. I asked a question of a friend on something that I was trying to find out the info to help someone else (not anything secret or gossip). I know the friend has checked her email because I have got email from her but not the answer to the question. Maybe it's because I'm tired and not really feeling that great, but it just kind of struck a cord with me today. Why do I go out of the way to help so much (and there has been many times I have inconvenienced myself to help)? I guess I don't need to be so eager to help. You know you get burned just so many times!


